The One Question To Ask When You Are Frustrated

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23 Oct, 2018
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Kirby Hasseman

hasseman marketing frustrated People often ask me, “How are you so positive all of the time?”   The answer is…it’s hard.  Some days it’s harder than others.  My attitude is very much by choice, but that does not mean it’s easy.  I have to work at it. The more I put myself out there, the more risks I take, the more opportunity that leaves for me to get punched in the face (metaphorically speaking).   In those moments of disappointment and frustration, I probably react like anyone else.  I vent.  I yell.  I might even cry.  But then I take a deep breath and ask myself one important question. “Why is this for the best?” In the moment, it feels like a dumb question.  How can it (whatever it is) be for the best?  I am pissed about it.  I am frustrated.  I am disappointed.    But what I have found is that you can’t find the answer to questions you don’t ask.   So when you face your next frustration, or rejection, or disappointment, ask yourself, “Why is this for the best?” Make sure you never miss an update.  Sign up for our VIP newsletter.  We send out one email per week with all of the content we create in one place.  The list is growing.  So become a VIP by signing up now! 

Written by: Kirby Hasseman

Kirby Hasseman is the CEO of Hasseman Marketing & Communications, a full-service agency specializing in branded merchandise, digital marketing, and content creation. A passionate entrepreneur, speaker, and community advocate, Kirby creates weekly content through his popular video and podcast series, including Delivering Marketing Joy, Better Merch...Better Marketing, and Monday Minute. He is the author of several books, including his latest, Hit The TARGET, a marketing framework to help businesses reach their ideal customers, as well as Fan of Happy, Delivering Marketing Joy, Think Big For Small Business, and Give Your Way to Success. Kirby speaks to audiences across the country on topics such as marketing strategy, leadership, company culture, and personal development. Known for his energy, humor, and practical advice, he’s dedicated to helping businesses and individuals grow by building strong brands and stronger relationships.