7 Things to STOP Doing on Social Media Now

Social media can really be a wonderful thing.  We get the opportunity to connect with people from around the globe and reconnect with people from our past.  We get to share and communicate, and it gives each and every one of us a voice.  But we all know that there are some things about social media that are not as good.  People have a tendency to get themselves in trouble by making some pretty simple mistakes.  So here are 7 things that you (or the people your organization) should STOP doing right away.

Stop Complaining About Work or Co-Workers:  If you are complaining about your co-workers or your job, and you think they can’t see it, you are wrong.  They will find out.  It’s unprofessional.  And if you don’t care that you lose your job, just keep in mind that your next employer will be checking social media on you too.

Stop Passive Aggressive Complaints:  This is when someone is obviously complaining about something that happened but does not want to address it in person.  “Some people should just stop…” or posts of the like.  If you have a problem with someone, be a grown up and talk to them about it.

Stop Claiming Free Speech:  The First Amendment was created so that we could speak out without fear of being imprisoned by the government…not for being a jerk on Facebook.  You do have freedom of speech, but you don’t have freedom of consequences.  Stop acting like you do.

Stop Looking for a Reason to be Mad:  It seems like some people wake up each day searching for a reason to be outraged.  If you look for reasons to be angry all the time, you will find them (this post for example).  Stop seeking out reasons to be mad and you might actually get happier.

Stop Comparing Your Life to Others:  The fact is, most people (myself included) sometimes put up our “highlight reel” on social media.  We post the pictures that look great.  We show our vacations, not the times we are crying in the corner.  Just be better than you were yesterday…stop worrying if Frank is on vacation again.

Stop Saying “Woe is me:”  We all have challenges, and social media can be a place to vent…sometimes.  But if you are constantly complaining about your life, then stop it.  Take that time and energy and go out and change it.

Stop Forgetting Social is Public:  I am always a little amused when people are surprised that what they put on social gets seen by people.  It’s a public forum.  So when you post things, just understand that your co-workers, your boss, your customers and even your future employer can and will see it.

These are just seven things to stop, but it’s a good start.  Let me know if we have forgotten any that we need to add to the list.  Again, social media can be great.  But be smart…and it can be even better.

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Written by: Kirby Hasseman

Kirby Hasseman is the CEO of Hasseman Marketing & Communications. Kirby hosts a weekly Web show called Delivering Marketing Joy where he interviews business leaders from around the country. Kirby has published four books. His most recent is “Fan of Happy.” His book, called "Delivering Marketing Joy" is about doing “promo right” and is perfect for people in the industry and customers. He also wrote “Think Big For Small Business” and “Give Your Way to Success. All are available on Amazon.