It’s time for Episode 24 of the He Said/She Said Podcast with Hasseman Marketing! This podcast is designed to give an inside look at being married and being entrepreneurs and the projects we are working on and the challenges we are facing! We talk about business, family, community and more. So listen in and let us know what you think!
On this episode we talk about…
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This week Kirby and Amy talk about the most recent election cycle. Kirby suggests that we need to start with the idea that, even though we might not always agree, we don’t have to be enemies. Amy talks about a recent Ellen video she saw that went with the theme. When we say “be kind,” that does not mean just to those that agree with you. Listen in to get more on this!
Weekly Whirlwind
This week in the Weekly Whirlwind Amy spends some time talking about the ups and downs of the building project. Though we all want to celebrate the wins, it’s important to understand that in every journey worth doing, there will be challenges. Amy talks about just a few in the journey to bring the building back to life!
Lesson In Life
This week in the “lesson in life” Kirby and Amy talk about the importance of being intentional at work…but also with fun!
Shout Outs
Each week we want to give a shout out to an organization or an individual doing good work. This week Kirby talks about friends Mark and Catherine Graham from Commonsku. Both are generous, smart and giving entrepreneurs…and they recently sold their first company Rightsleeve. Happy for them! Amy gives a shout out to anyone and everyone that helps with the Coshocton County Fair!
So that’s a wrap! Thanks for listening to Episode 24 of the He Said She Said Podcast! Any feedback will be welcome as we try to provide you value! If you want to subscribe you can do that where you normally get podcasts…or you can head here to follow on Soundcloud.
It’s time for Episode 22 of the He Said/She Said Podcast with Hasseman Marketing! This podcast is designed to give an inside look at being married and being entrepreneurs and the projects we are working on and the challenges we are facing! We talk about business, family, community and more. So listen in and let us know what you think!
On this episode we talk about…
Trending Topic
This week Kirby and Amy talk about the reason you should (and should not) buy local. It’s not a moral obligation. Amy tells the story of an example when buying local simply can give better service. Listen in and give us your thoughts!
Weekly Whirlwind
This week in the Weekly Whirlwind Amy talks about the progress (and some lack of progress) at the building project and what has been really stressing her out over the last week or so!
Lesson In Life
This week Kirby and Amy discuss the idea of communication. Most leaders think they are good communicators. Most employees think communication is bad. What is the disconnect? Kirby and Amy dig into the concept of “over-communicating.” Is that a thing?
Shout Outs
Each week we want to give a shout out to an organization or an individual doing good work. This week Amy talks about the heroes of this time of year…teachers! Most of our kids are heading back to school…so big shout out to those that are working with them every day. Kirby gives a shout out to his buddy Bill Petrie. Bill has been hard at work on a new program called PromoMBA, and Kirby points out the big difference between ideas and execution.
So that’s a wrap! Thanks for listening to Episode 22 of the He Said She Said Podcast! Any feedback will be welcome as we try to provide you value! If you want to subscribe you can do that where you normally get podcasts…or you can head here to follow on Soundcloud.
There are so many ways that technology has changed our world for the better. We can communicate with nearly anyone around the world. We can shop anytime. We can donate to causes from our kitchen. We have the ability to click a button and have things delivered to our phone instantly, or to our front door in a day or two. It truly is an amazing time we live in!
The one thing I see as a detriment to this “overnight delivery” culture that we live in, is a pure lack of patience for anything.
In other words, despite the fact that we live in a “microwave society” many things that matter to us need to be cooked in the crock pot.
Things that matter take time. Change can be difficult. As a matter of fact, real progress takes pain (like I said here). Here are some basic examples.
If you want to change your fitness level, it will not happen overnight. It will take months of real work.
Want to start a sales career? Get ready for a year to 18 months of building trust and relationships.
Want to have a relationship that lasts? The foundation will not be created overnight on twitter.
It’s simple…but not easy. The things that really matter in your life take time and work. They take consistent effort. And yes, they take patience.
This does not mean you shouldn’t start now! As Seth Godin once told me, “The best time to plant a tree is 40 years ago. The 2nd best time is now.” If you have something in your life that is worth working for, now is a great time get to work on it. Just know that it will take time. That time won’t make it worth less. It will make it worth more.
You aren’t creating something in the microwave. You are simmering your project in the crockpot. Bon Appetit!
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We live in a world where it seems like everything is moving at lightening speed…and getting faster. We have more to do, and seemingly, less time to get it all done. With that in mind, most of us are looking to be more productive. We don’t need to be more busy. We need to get more done. That need to get more done (and be more happy) is the inspiration behind the series START & STOP!
Each time on START & STOP, I give viewers and listeners one thing they should start doing and one thing they should stop if they want to be more productive. On this episode we tackle the topic of Gratitude and Excuses.
START a Habit of Gratitude
We have a formula backwards in our culture today. We think that if we work hard and achieve success, then we will be happy. Studies will tell you that is not true. Instead, if you are happy and you work hard, you are more likely to succeed. But how can you “be happy?” The answer is simple. Be grateful. You cannot be grateful and negative at the same time! In order to start being more grateful, start a 30 day gratitude challenge. Every day, send one thank you note to someone. At first it will be easy. But as time goes on, you will have to start looking for reasons to be thankful. As you look for it, you will start to see more good in the world. It’s a powerful exercise (even if you have already done it). If you want to be more productive, start a habit of gratitude!
STOP Making Excuses
This week I want encourage you to STOP making excuses. It’s time to take responsibility for every thing in your life! If something goes wrong, assume it’s your fault. This is not about playing the martyr. It’s about looking at every challenge as a chance to learn and grow. When you take responsibility for everything, it can be very empowering. If you want to be more productive (and happy), stop making excuses.
When it comes to chasing (nearly) any goal, there are so many factors that I can’t control. These outside factors can make it daunting to even consider starting. No matter the endeavor, or the person, I think we all see these roadblocks. As we consider the journey, we even list them in our mind.
There is not enough time.
There are already people doing it.
I am not smart enough.
I am not talented enough.
No one will care what I have to say.
No one will want to buy from me.
You get the idea. This list of roadblocks and excuses get larger the longer you dwell on them. There are so many reasons why things will not work, there is a big percentage of people that will simply not try at all. But here’s the thing about these roadblocks and excuses. You can’t control most of them. You can’t make yourself taller, or more handsome, or more talented. You can’t wave a magic wand and create more time. You can’t make people care what you have to say.
You really only have control over a few things. You have the ability to improve your attitude. You can change they way you think about challenges. You can commit to viewing the inevitable challenges you will face with a smile. You can embrace the art.
The Art of Showing Up.
You see, I cannot make myself more handsome or lucky. I can’t become the quintessential writer of our time. I will probably never be the most persuasive salesperson or the fastest runner. But I can keep showing up. Every day, I can post a blog. Every day I can make that extra call. Every day I can do the push ups or the run. I control that. I control my attitude and my effort. And so do you.
Oh…and make no mistake…there IS an art to that. Bob Dylan is remembered for the classic songs he wrote. But what is forgotten is how many songs he wrote and recorded. He was prolific. Had he only recorded one album, we probably would not know who he was. He kept working and writing and recording. He kept grinding. He kept showing up.
And then one day…he was a legend.
If you are wavering on your commitment today, I get it. We all get tired and frustrated at times. But on this morning, don’t worry about being perfect. Don’t worry about being the best. Just commit to the art of showing up…again and again.
